Comments on: Un-Magic Number

By: Miss Bonnified

Miss Bonnified — Mon, 28 Dec 2009 22:55:37 +0000

AAH HAA HAA HAA!!! omg…that’s hilarious and sad at the same time. x)

By: Jasmine

Jasmine — Mon, 28 Dec 2009 22:52:09 +0000

I thought the magic number was “3″- which is the only correct response to this question.

I hate you find out a guy has a “high” number but then you discover he *still* doesn’t know what he’s doing! haha.

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Sat, 26 Dec 2009 08:05:19 +0000

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By: missbonnified

missbonnified — Sat, 26 Dec 2009 06:56:19 +0000

Dennis – He wasn’t ever jealous. The trust issues…well…that was probably already there before I came on the scene. Regardless of what it was, my number definitely was an easy target. Dude, you’re totally bragging! But I’m happy you and your lady are able to handle it.

Sherri – WOW!!! I totally don’t even know what to say to that one, girlfriend. But * high five * on the whole “When I’m with someone, I’m with them”. w00t!!

By: Sherri

Sherri — Fri, 25 Dec 2009 19:15:45 +0000

“When I’m with someone, I’m with them.” Exactly!

My last boyfriend brought ALL of my ex’s into our relationship. I just wanted to forget about the past but he couldn’t stop grilling me about how I felt about the last guy I’d dated. I guess it didn’t matter to him that HE started having sex in 1968 when I was age four!! It certainly didn’t matter to me.

I was in college in the 1980s, before AIDS. Regarding “the magic number”, anyone who predates AIDS should be given a “home free” card! (Besides, I can’t even remember how many its been, haha!)

By: Dennis Hong

Dennis Hong — Fri, 25 Dec 2009 18:48:26 +0000

I agree that the “un-magic number” is a potential can of worms, but my completely subjective assessment is that your relationship had other problems. I don’t believe that a simple revelation of the number, in itself, can be enough to destroy a relationship. It sounds like your ex had jealousy or trust issues going on there, and your “number” became an easy scapegoat to pin these issues on.

For the record (and sorry if this sounds like bragging), both my girlfriend and I know each other’s numbers. In fact, we’ve had discussions about some of our previous experiences and how they’ve shaped who we are today. Even though there were some awkward moments at times, I think we understand each other so much better because of our openness and communication.

Point being, I agree it’s a touchy subject, but by no means do I believe it must be completely taboo.