Comments on: Hot Guy And Nice Guy Walk Into A Party http://www.musingsonlifeandlove.com/2009/12/13/hot-guy-and-nice-guy-walk-into-a-party/ We're not at war. Love isn't a battlefield. Tue, 07 Feb 2012 01:32:52 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Andrei B. http://www.musingsonlifeandlove.com/2009/12/13/hot-guy-and-nice-guy-walk-into-a-party/#comment-2095 Andrei B. Mon, 14 Feb 2011 18:08:20 +0000 http://musingsonlifeandlove.com/?p=822#comment-2095 Unfortunately, if someone is as stupid as the "Hot Guy", not only is he unlikely to read this article, but also if he does, most likely he'll miss the point... Then again, you did "gain" a troll, so hopefully I'm wrong ;) Unfortunately, if someone is as stupid as the “Hot Guy”, not only is he unlikely to read this article, but also if he does, most likely he’ll miss the point… Then again, you did “gain” a troll, so hopefully I’m wrong ;)

]]> By: Meg Pierce http://www.musingsonlifeandlove.com/2009/12/13/hot-guy-and-nice-guy-walk-into-a-party/#comment-417 Meg Pierce Tue, 08 Jun 2010 03:38:46 +0000 http://musingsonlifeandlove.com/?p=822#comment-417 For the record, I never said I was looking to get laid at the party. :) Not really my modus operandi. However, I know there are people like the "Hot Guy" in my story who are looking for that and I thought I'd just give them a little insight. For the record, I never said I was looking to get laid at the party. :) Not really my modus operandi. However, I know there are people like the “Hot Guy” in my story who are looking for that and I thought I’d just give them a little insight.

]]> By: Kwarl http://www.musingsonlifeandlove.com/2009/12/13/hot-guy-and-nice-guy-walk-into-a-party/#comment-416 Kwarl Sun, 06 Jun 2010 07:22:43 +0000 http://musingsonlifeandlove.com/?p=822#comment-416 This was a good read and very instructing to me. I'm pretty much the nemesis of the hot guy you described : I never talk about sex with a girl I don't know very well, and the first thing I look for in a girl I want to sleep with is personality. I guess my only common point with Generic Hot Guy is that we both want to get laid indiscriminately with any remotely hot girl. But that's probably the only thing that matters anyway. This was a good read and very instructing to me. I’m pretty much the nemesis of the hot guy you described : I never talk about sex with a girl I don’t know very well, and the first thing I look for in a girl I want to sleep with is personality.

I guess my only common point with Generic Hot Guy is that we both want to get laid indiscriminately with any remotely hot girl. But that’s probably the only thing that matters anyway.

]]> By: Dehka http://www.musingsonlifeandlove.com/2009/12/13/hot-guy-and-nice-guy-walk-into-a-party/#comment-415 Dehka Fri, 04 Jun 2010 19:19:59 +0000 http://musingsonlifeandlove.com/?p=822#comment-415 Alright so that's sexism and slut-shaming. Niiiice. Slut-shaming is never justified. There is nothing whorish or even remotely bad about going to a party and looking for some fun. Just because you harbor some insecurities and don't know how to get over it doesn't mean that you can cut someone down that's trying to do a service to other people. You ignored the entire point of the article and zoned in on the closing, where she talked about her own personal experiences. Taking an article out of context doesn't help your point at all. And besides, taken out of context, there is still nothing offensive or alarming about kissing a guy and giving him your number. That's not even a societal taboo, except in the most conservative of social scenes, i.e. not a flirty party. I know nobody should waste their time on you, just being an internet troll stuck on the bottom of the collective shoe of society, but it should be said that judging someone on what they like to do in their spare time is a deplorable activity. Meg, I'm a first time reader and just happened to come upon this piece. I think your writing is excellent and really makes a valid point. Don't let this joker get to you. You aren't a "whore," even though using that term derogatorily is still offensive, but I'm sure you're confident enough in yourself not to worry about that. Alright so that’s sexism and slut-shaming. Niiiice.
Slut-shaming is never justified. There is nothing whorish or even remotely bad about going to a party and looking for some fun. Just because you harbor some insecurities and don’t know how to get over it doesn’t mean that you can cut someone down that’s trying to do a service to other people.
You ignored the entire point of the article and zoned in on the closing, where she talked about her own personal experiences. Taking an article out of context doesn’t help your point at all. And besides, taken out of context, there is still nothing offensive or alarming about kissing a guy and giving him your number. That’s not even a societal taboo, except in the most conservative of social scenes, i.e. not a flirty party.
I know nobody should waste their time on you, just being an internet troll stuck on the bottom of the collective shoe of society, but it should be said that judging someone on what they like to do in their spare time is a deplorable activity.
Meg, I’m a first time reader and just happened to come upon this piece. I think your writing is excellent and really makes a valid point. Don’t let this joker get to you. You aren’t a “whore,” even though using that term derogatorily is still offensive, but I’m sure you’re confident enough in yourself not to worry about that.

]]> By: Alex http://www.musingsonlifeandlove.com/2009/12/13/hot-guy-and-nice-guy-walk-into-a-party/#comment-414 Alex Fri, 04 Jun 2010 18:29:16 +0000 http://musingsonlifeandlove.com/?p=822#comment-414 What a shitload of girlish BS. You are a whore and you cannot make it seem less bad by justifying why you are one. What a shitload of girlish BS. You are a whore and you cannot make it seem less bad by justifying why you are one.

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